Edmond Fokker van Crayestein
When I first received the invitation to visit Bangladesh — a land I had never been to — I was intrigued, curious, and above all, honoured. The idea was to come as a golf coach, as a member of the World Golf Teachers Federation, and share knowledge with local professionals. But as my journey unfolded, I discovered I was there for something far greater — to build friendships, share cultures, and blend two of my greatest passions: golf and music.
I call this journey “Swings & Strings,” because that’s exactly what it was — a rhythmical dance between melodies and movements, between the bow of a violin and the arc of a golf club. In late April 2025, I stepped onto Bangladeshi soil for the very first time, not knowing what awaited me. I left 11 days later with memories that will last a lifetime.
A Welcome Beyond Imagination
My trip was initiated through the kind efforts of Tiger Golf Club (TGC) and the Embassy of the Kingdom of the Netherlands in Dhaka. Ambassador André Carstens, a dear friend and fellow golfer, played a key role. It was his vision — and the generous spirit of the Bangladeshi golfing community — that brought this collaboration to life. He suggested that I offer my support and let myself be surprised by what I would discover.
All I can say is: from the moment I arrived, I was showered with warmth, respect, and genuine hospitality, resulting in friendships and some truly wonderful plans.
Bangladesh’s golf scene was something I had only heard of. I was told it is growing, enthusiastic, yet still developing. What I found was a nation of passionate golfers, eager learners, and generous hosts. My mission was to train golf professionals and share modern coaching techniques. But more than anything, I hoped to inspire — not just better swings, but broader horizons and reachable perspectives.
Train the Trainer
Our base of operations was the Kurmitola Golf Club (KGC) — a beautiful course nestled in the heart of Dhaka. With lush fairways and a vibrant community, it was the perfect venue to host several days of intense training sessions. Coaches and professionals came from all corners of Bangladesh — from Savar to Chittagong, from Rajshahi to Sylhet.
What struck me immediately was their hunger to learn. These weren’t beginners — they were seasoned professionals, many with years of experience. Yet, they approached every session with humility and an open mind. That’s the mark of a true teacher, trainer, and coach.
My approach has always been a bit unconventional. I believe music and golf are spiritual siblings — both rely on rhythm, tempo, timing, and feel. During the sessions, I often referred to musical rhythms when explaining swing tempo. At one point, I even drew my bow across an imaginary violin on the driving range. “Let your swing sing,” I told them. “Find your own tempo, like a favorite song.”
We worked on everything — swing fundamentals, short game, course management, and above all, mindset. I emphasized that good golf is not just physical; it’s deeply mental. Like performing on a stage with a violin, hitting a pressure shot requires focus, breath control, muscle relaxation, and inner calm. Whatever you do, swing within yourself. Never force it — allow it. The pulse from the brain reaches the hands only when tension is released from all limbs. Relaxation and control are key.
One of my most rewarding moments came while coaching Md. Liton, a passionate coach from Savar Golf Club. His energy, curiosity, and commitment reminded me why I love doing this. I later posted about him online, praising him as an example of excellence in Bangladesh’s coaching community. His smile when I told him that is a moment I will never forget.
The Harmony of Culture
Of course, this trip wasn’t just about golf. It was also about culture — sharing mine, experiencing theirs. One evening was especially magical: the “Strings & Swings” Gala Night, hosted by Tiger Golf Club at the InterContinental Dhaka. That evening, I traded my 7-iron for a violin to share my emotions on Bangladesh through music.
In the grand ballroom, with diplomats, business leaders, golfers, and their families gathered, I performed a short selection of classical and cross-cultural pieces. Among them, I included a Bengali folk tune — a surprise I had prepared in advance. The reaction was beyond anything I expected. Some guests sang along, others teared up. It was a reminder that music is truly the only international language — it has no borders.
That night, we also celebrated the launch of Golf and Beyond we magazine — a project I wholeheartedly support. It represents a new voice for golf in Bangladesh, telling stories that extend beyond the course. Being invited to help cut the launch cake, alongside TGC leaders and the editorial team, was a true honour.
The evening concluded with music, laughter, and even a mini putting contest (yes, in tuxedos and dresses!). I took a putter and joined in — sinking my second attempt, to everyone’s amusement. It was informal, warm, and full of joy. The perfect finale to a day that fused two worlds — golf and music — into one unforgettable celebration.
A Community with Heart
What I found in Bangladesh was more than a group of golfers. I found a family — united by the love of the game, driven by the desire to grow. The leadership of Tiger Golf Club, particularly Brigadier General (Retd) Md. Manzur Qader, welcomed me like a brother. I was deeply moved to be made an Honorary Member of the Club — a gesture I will cherish always.
I was also privileged to meet individuals who are quietly doing incredible work — from Ms. Luna Sarker, who is championing women’s golf development, to Mohiuddin Monem, a businessman-golfer with a visionary outlook. And of course, my friend Zahirul — who does so many wonderful things, including his work on this beautiful magazine! They, along with others, are planting seeds that will bear fruit in the years to come.
And then there were the students — young, determined, and filled with hope. I met junior golfers with excellent fundamentals and big dreams. If given the right support and exposure, I truly believe we will see Bangladeshi players shine on the Asian Tour — and perhaps even on the world stage.
The Path Ahead
I left Bangladesh inspired. I arrived as a guest, but I departed feeling like part of something larger — a movement, a community, a purpose. This visit was only the beginning. Already, conversations are happening about returning — for a full-fledged coaching camp, or perhaps to help certify local pros through the World Golf Teachers Federation, which is more than willing to team up with local national partners.
I believe Bangladesh has enormous potential. The facilities are improving. The talent is there. The passion is undeniable. What’s needed now is continuity — sustained investment in training, opportunities for local coaches to grow, and support for juniors to receive the best coaching and compete abroad.
If I can play a small role in that journey — whether by coaching, mentoring, or performing — I will do so with joy. The question isn’t whether we’ll team up — it’s when we’ll begin.
For me, this trip wasn’t just about golf. It was about connection. It was about showing that when we share knowledge, culture, and kindness, we make each other better — as players, and as people.
My Final Note
As I boarded my flight back to Europe, I reflected on a line I often share with students:
“A good swing stays in rhythm, even when the wind changes.”
In Bangladesh, I found a country dancing gracefully through the winds of change. A country rich with stories, with music, with untapped potential. To everyone who welcomed me, who listened, who learned, who laughed — thank you. I will return. Until then, keep your tempo steady, your pace natural, your backswing controlled, and your heart open.
I now consider Bangladesh a warm-hearted country with kindred spirits and true friends.
With gratitude and admiration,
Your friend from the Netherlands,
Edmond Fokker van Crayestein
World Golf Teachers Federation (WGTF) Top 50 Teaching Professional / Violinist
